Fantasy Feb 2016 TTC

[maidentomother]

Kmom I would definitely BD again today! It's harder to conceive with a really long cut off (more than 4 days) on Clomid for sure, just due to reduced CM.

[Kmomofthree]

Thank you maiden!
It's so frustrating to me to have such a hard time getting positive opks! I have ewcm but it is minimal... I feel like that must be an effect of clomid... my cp is very high. I can't even tell if it's soft or hard cause its out of reach almost.

Tmi question but does anything effect cp other than O? Like needing to have a bowel movement? I don't feel like i have to go to the bathroom at all but I'm just trying to think of any reason why it would feel so high other than ovulation it's self.

[Quinn31]

Sorry maiden. Your temps are still high overall. Mine dropped before my bfp in December. Also saw tfahn started. It really is disappointing to get a negative after a mc. So close but so far.

I still keep getting upset about my cp. Being pregnant would have saved me so much money between the RE and acupuncture. Plus I always think of the baby that could have been...

I know the best results for girl are one or two times but I conceived my last dd with an IUI and tons of bd before and after. I had a really LE lifestyle though so that helped I'm sure.


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[maidentomother]

Kmom I've only gotten positive OPKs twice in 6 years of using them. On Clomid, my OPKs were even lighter than usual! It is indeed very frustrating. I love my CBAD bc I get a Peak on it preceded by 3-4 days of Highs. But it can't be used on Clomid. I think it's great that you are BDing every 4 days. I planned to do that this cycle but I felt so bad from the Clomid it wasn't possible. Hoping to do every 3 days next cycle.

Awww Quinn i really hope this is your month.

I just noticed some clear EWCM with a tiny blob of rubbery, very pale pink CM. I'm inclined to think that means I'm out...but my pre AF spotting is always at least a little brownish. Often it looks beige bc it's so little and mixed with creamy CM. This pink is completrly devoid of any brown. Last pregnancy I has a few days of pink tinged clear-creamy CM around the same dpo. Gah! If it WERE brown I'd just assume AF was coming...i hate limbo!

Also I'm retaining water? I noticed bc I wore some jeans and almost couldn't button them but I definitely haven't gained weight. Has anyone retained water post O on Clomid? This is not a normal symptom for me, pregnant or not.

[tfahn]

I can relate Quinn, the BFN hit me hard yesterday and I kept thinking that the MC I had last month was probably a boy that I wanted since it took so long to implant, as people usually say boys implant later. I had tested through 11dpo and never got a positive on a FRER so when I started bleeding on 13 dpo I naturally assumed it was my period which in hindsight it never was, I so wish I had tested Christmas day.

I just have heard so many people get there BFP after there MC that I was focused on that all month but alas a new cycle began, crying over it won't change my BFN so trying to stay positive. I will start Clomid Monday evening, After I call the RE and request a blood HcG test Monday morning. I just don't trust the FRER's and the heaving bleeding enough to take Clomid again without a blood test. Fingers crossed for a healthy BFP this cycle.

[tfahn]

I still think this is your cycle Maiden, pee on a stick already! LOL

[Quinn31]

Yeah, tfahn your situation was such a strange fluke. I've never heard of that happening so I would probably get a blood test too. Hopefully this is it for you!!


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[cmiller1]

Hi all so I'm trying for a girl as well this is month four of hoping to get a positive preg test but AF came at 11 days past o about 4 days earlier then normal! It was def a period as it was not just spotting lasted only 3-4 days usually have two light days and three heavy! Didnt have the heavy this time ? U think its messed up from diet and supplements! Atomic said to dtd 1 time at positive but I'm going to do every three days? Also do any of you use refresh debating if I should use it or if maybe that us another reason I'm not getting prego! I usually get preggo easily! First month w my first and 1 time w my second!

[Princess Mom]

CD 4 AF is more heavy than usual, can't wait to get my bfp already! Really hoping for a Thanksgiving Baby!

Will do e4d then see when I will about to ovulate and maybe switch to e3d I really need to get off this diet and be pregnant already lol

[Princess Mom]

Refresh cuts conception a lot and odds are not even that good, I used it before and didn't conceive dropped it and did. I used ky jelly and won't be using it again.

Just fiber and coffee and alcohol daily and BD e3d