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    Quote Originally Posted by cristina13 View Post
    Just wanted to update, no heartbeat yesterday at 7w 4 days, had d&c today. I am a complete mess right now! What I learnt from this, lovely ladies don't cry when you get a BFN... Just find peace with yourself... It just hurts a million times more to end it later than just get AF when is supposed to come and move on faster and with less pain... It literally broke my heart in two peaces when the doctor told me also babies under 500gr have to be properly buried. The hospital is taking care of everything, here in Germany they have a cemetery called "Star Kids" where they put them to rest. There is one in every major city, I will find the strength to go there pretty soon. I wish you all good luck! I am sorry to be such a mess now, but I know you lovely ladies understand! Special thank you to my heart-dear C ❤️ you are the best!
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    My family puzzle is complete now 💕
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    I'm so sorry for your loss! *hugs*
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    2 failed sway due August 2015

    Might try to conceive a DD through IVF/pgd in the future

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    I'm so sorry for your loss - I know how painful it is . You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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    Due 7/13/2015 ! Swayed pink and I am blessed to be with and (TWINS!)!

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    I'm so so sorry for your loss.
    Enjoying life with my crazy little DS1 2010: and DS2 2012:
    Jan 15- Loss sway baby 12 wks
    It's a boy!
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    Sorry to hear that Hun, I've also been there and it's horrible 😔. Here if you need to vent X

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    Oh Cristina, I am so sorry. If you're ever near Bonn I'd love to get some coffee or take you out for a meal and provide any support, if you just want to be around someone who understands and would be glad to listen or commiserate. I will never fully get over my twin miscarriage in 2012. BFNs are infinitely more tolerable, you have that right.

    Love, light, peace and healing to you. Big hugs.

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    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    I'm so sorry Cristina XX

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    I am so sorry Cristina. Thinking of you. ((((hugs))))
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