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Facebook really IS bad for you
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, April 5th, 2014 at 01:21 PM (1279 Views)
There's nothing like a scientific survey, cited in the Economist, to prove what I already know....which is that Facebook really is bad for us. [URL="http://www.economist.com/news/science-and-technology/21583593-using-social-network-seems-make-people-more-miserable-get-life"]http://www.economist.com/news/science-and-technology/21583593-using-social-network-seems-make-people-more-miserable-get-life[/URL]
Ok ok, there's got to be one person out there somewhere who is the happiest person on the planet, who posts to their heart's content, and is envious of no one. But they're at the top of a massive invisible pyramid in which the rest of us find PLENTY of people seemingly 'above us' to envy, in some aspect of their life, while not internalizing the people 'below'.
I logged onto to facebook for the first time in a month? yesterday - as after all, I was having a pretty good hour, glass of wine by my side, kids asleep, and hubby and I relaxing. And somehow I had the thought of, 'how bad is facebook really?' and before I knew it I'd opened the webpage.
Within 30 seconds I enjoyed a funny post from a friend, the topic of which I can barely remember now.
But immediately after that i saw a friend's picture of her kids that made me a little sad and a little jealous. And then learned a distant acquaintance was having a girl after two boys, and that the whole family was excited.
Yep I felt SUPER after that. Clearly so worth it to have checked in.
For GD, facebook is the trigger of all triggers. That and babyshowers for family or friends who are having your DG!
As Anne Lemott said in her amazing book on writing, per her therapist: it's unhealthy to be 'comparing your insides to other peoples' outsides.'
Exactly.