To find out or not to find out, that is the question!

[Zivic-Bubac]

If it was leaning more towards not being what I wanted, I would have waited. I could leave that little bit of hope in my pregnancy and enjoy it more (not a fan of pregnancy, so gd and that are not a good mixture!)
If you are fine once they are here, then I would wait as you feel it may not be going your way. Yes, it may be the greatest surprise ever and yes, the torture of waiting is terrible but it's your last time to enjoy a little hope and not spoil your pregnancy with dissapoinment.

I really hope this is your boy!

This! I'm trying not to ruin this whole experience with my obssesing. I'll beter prepare myself for another girl the best I can, and if it's a boy ( but miracles don't happen to me) I'll sure know how to cope with a surprise

Huge congratulations on your baby girl!!!!

[Zivic-Bubac]

I would find out!

You are one brave mama!

[Zivic-Bubac]

understand as it's so mixed emotions as you are looking at this gorgeous baby and love him but feel a little lost at the same time.

If we go for a third we will find out but not tell anyone as can't bare to hear all the condolences if it's boy number three and don't want to hear how I've finally got it right if it is a girl!

This also, I just can't go through condolences ( this is the right word!!!!) if it's another girl. Once she's here, I beleive it would be different.
I was very disappointed DD3 was a girl, hoping for the miracle the entire time. Which of course didn't happen.
And all the stupid comments, especially from the immediate family ( yes, that's very sad to have a family like mine) didn't make me feel any better.

FX for your baby girl!!!!

[kitkat18]

So hard honey I will be in your position if I could just get a BFP!! I think we will wait, for me too I had bad GD during pregnancy with DS 2 but little when he arrived , he had a name, personality and we made him!! It was harder coping with negative remarks being pregnant. I have already planned a gender neutral nursery.... In my head!!! Good luck honey tough decision!! Xxxx
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[Zivic-Bubac]

Good luck honey tough decision!! Xxxx
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Thank you!
You'll get that BFP eventually, you already have 2 babies so it will happen again for sure. It took me over a year to conceive DD3.

[kitkat18]

Thanks zivic for your kind words Xx
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[Abifasc]

Right now I want to give you big hug and cry a bit on your shoulder! Thank you, from your mouth to God's ears!

I hope it is your sweet son. I would say try not to worry but I'm over here obsessing every symptom wondering if my baby is my girl finally can't wait to hear your update!!

[foxymrsg]

Whatever you choose to do will be the right decision for you I'm sure of that! I'll send you all my blue dust for your pink! Lol! I'm now off to look at your nub shot as not sure I've seen it yet

[QueenB3blue]

I struggle with this now and I am not even pg. I have found out with all 3 of my sons. I say a lot that I am going to wait because this is for sure our last! But what I am really nervous about is being upset after delivery. There would be no alone time for me to process my emotions if it was another boy. I really don't know how I would react. But if I would get upset everyone would be there to see and that would make me feel even worse!
If I do find out while pregnant regardless if it is boy or girl I am not telling anyone!! In fact, I will hold off on a pregnancy announcement for as long as I can. The comments are pretty unbearable!

Good luck with whatever you decide

[Zivic-Bubac]

Thank you all for your replies. While I was reading, it was becoming more and more clear to me I DON'T WANT TO KNOW
I'll keep you updated!