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Thread: Annoyed at being annoyed!
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July 23rd, 2014, 11:00 AM #1
Annoyed at being annoyed!
Does that even make since!!!
I am going to try and keep this short, but is probably impossible
Does anyone have one person that just gets to them? I do. My sil. I am so annoyed that I let myself get all worked up over her!!!
I will explain a little. Probably first started when she asked me to be in her wedding then changed her mind. And I am the one who mostly helped with her shower, decorating, baking, games, and even bought all the prizes!!!
Then she gets pregnant, this is right before I have my 3rd son. She was very outspoken about wanting a girl. She was so sure she was having a girl she even referred to it by name! Her mother even said to me " you know she is going to have a girl right". Well, she had a boy! But know she is pregnant with her daughter:-/
With her son she was given a baby shower as tradition of course. She at one point said she register for gender neutral stuff knowing they would probably have another child. Fine. Good. Great. Now, about 2 years later pregnant with her daughter I get an invite to a shower for her soon arrival. Hosted by herself!!!!
Why am I this way! I was shaking with emotion when I got that invite! I am so annoyed! I would be devastated if anyone IRL knew I felt this way
I really wish I could make these feeling go away!!!
Thanks for reading. Sorry if I offended anyone. I just needed to vent I guess.
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July 23rd, 2014, 11:10 AM #2
OMG! I totally get it - you go ahead and vent girl - vent as much as you like!
DH: 39 Me: 40 Low AMH/High FSH/Low AFC
2005 DS1
2007 MC at 13 weeks (boy)
2008 DS2
1st Cycle - Jan 2012 - Genesis - cancelled poor response
2nd Cycle - May 2012 - Genesis - 10 ER, 1 ET - BFN
3rd Cycle - Feb 2013 - Genesis - cancelled poor response
4th Cycle - Oct/Nov 2013 - Genesis - 4 ER, 1 ET - BFN
5th Cycle - April 2014 - HRC - cancelled poor response
Nov 2014 - Surprise BFP - 12 week scan showed baby stopped growing at 8 weeks
6th Cycle - DE March 2015 - DE FET1 8th June BFN, FET2 7th Oct BFN
"shoot for the moon, if you miss you will still be amongst the stars"
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July 23rd, 2014, 12:01 PM #3
AND I forgot to mention that when I found out ds3 was a boy and I told her she just said, " I am sorry". Nothing positive like he will be awesome like his brothers or congrats or anything. It would be one thing if we were close and she was apologizing that I didn't get the daughter I longed for, but honestly my DG didn't come until after ds3 was a year. I ended up reacting by telling her to not even bother coming to the hospital when he was born! Which I regret saying because it was a little nasty but I was actually emotionally spent anyways because my father was on his deathbed.
Geezzz, I really am a nice person. Honestly
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July 23rd, 2014, 12:58 PM #4
I know how you feel!! Tons of us do.
Proud mom of 3 lovely young ladies praying and swaying for a
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July 23rd, 2014, 09:18 PM #5
I had a SIL so similar to that. She ordered BBGG and got it....because when she orders something in life, it had better happen or everyone is going to pay for it....sickening at times.
You aren't alone and many of us relate to you all too well!
My Gender Dreaming
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July 23rd, 2014, 09:23 PM #6
My SIL is a PITA as well, totally understand your frustration
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July 25th, 2014, 04:12 PM #7
Sorry you are feeling this way Hun, I can totally relate.... My SIL has a girl and is preggy with her second, although funnily I think she actually wanted a boy both times. I do remember her saying to me, whilst I was preggy with DS1, 'are you ok with that (him being a boy)?'
Sending hugs ((())) x2 beautiful blue eyed boys who both own my (3 if you count DH!)
2012 2014
How strange it is to miss someone who has never existed... but now you are here, I recognised your beautiful face instantly, my little missing puzzle piece 2017
'No one knows when or how their story ends...' My wonderful mum 2014.
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July 26th, 2014, 10:30 AM #8
Vent away! If this forum didn't exist I think all boy mommys would combust due to pent up frustration, disappointment, jealousy and grief. We all completely understand!
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Angel baby Decemeber 23confirmedand pregnant again nowPlease, please be my little girl!
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July 27th, 2014, 09:55 AM #9
I do often feel like I will explode! There is such a mixed of emotions that come with gender desire
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August 3rd, 2014, 09:48 PM #10
We all know someone obnoxious and nascicistic like that. And most of us also have at least one sil we can't stand! I totally get it. We don't have to like everyone just bc they're family. (Hugs)
Adore my two
Hoping to add HT to complete the fam
One HT cycle, only one normal (thankfully XX), FET ended in m/c at 6.5 wks
Trying do decide whether to cycle again (and where), do donor embryo (and where) or walk away
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