Thread: PP jerks
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September 30th, 2014, 12:08 PM #11
PP jerks
And did I mention that while I am enduring this torturous gathering of PP families I am on the LE diet and craving the largest, juiciest chicken breast I can imagine!?!? Oh it was a tough evening. None of them have any idea what an easy hand they were dealt!
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September 30th, 2014, 04:36 PM #12
I must be pretty cynical because I think nearly every PP family believes in their own superiority and that getting both sexes isn't random but a sign that they've done some indefinable thing right. I think that's why they say things like "It'll just be another boy/girl," etc. They're just too invested in believing in their own superiority to really care how anyone else feels.
I think your friend was trying to be helpful, though. True, she doesn't really know what it's like not to have a girl but she does know what it's like to have a boy and was probably just showing you that she feels positively about them.Last edited by trifecta; September 30th, 2014 at 04:40 PM.
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September 30th, 2014, 06:42 PM #13
PP jerks
So true trifecta. That night I couldn't help but look around and think I won't ever have a girl. There needs to be somebody who is the boy mom, there is always all boy moms around and I just have this irking feeling maybe that will be me? Inferior!
And when I hear of two boy moms getting their girl I think "NO! Statistically there will only be so many 2 blue 1 pink moms so if others are becoming that there won't be any statistical room for me". I feel like I am totally screwed.
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September 30th, 2014, 07:53 PM #14Dream Vet
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I so get you on that Statistic thing. I know there has to be some all boy Mums but never thought I'd be one of the 'unlucky' ones. I'm in contact with a few BBG (my dream family since childhood) families lately and one being a friend and I think of how lucky they are to have lucked out like that in life and to get my girl I'm either going to have to have more kids than I really wanted and can handle without too much strain or strain myself trying to raise the money for HT and then go through this crazy process.
You seem to be really having a hard time lately with the whole no daughter thing. I certainly have my worser momments. Hugs to you and I hope we can both get pregnant again and have her next time Hang in there.
P.S I bet their girls are not as cool as your boys anyhow. I wish there was some easy thing to say to shut up people like that. I think your friend was trying to help even though there is no way she could understand but at least she was tryingDPs sons 21 +13 11 + our 6 4 year old identical twins!
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September 30th, 2014, 07:54 PM #15Dream Vet
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October 2nd, 2014, 10:52 PM #16
I remember seeing some numbers on here about the proportion of genders born? Like percentages of PP families, 2 boy and 1 girl families, etc. Anybody know where to find that?
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October 2nd, 2014, 11:33 PM #17Dream Vet
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Was that off the main page somewhere?
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October 3rd, 2014, 07:22 PM #18Swaying Advice Coach
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October 10th, 2014, 05:55 PM #19
Someone at work said last month "you're so lucky you don't have any girls" and then went on to tell a 'hilarious' story about her little daughter.
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