Losing hope for this sway

[foxtrotmama]

I'm not even pregnant yet and I'm starting to lose hope that I could get a DD. I feel like a third son is probably inevitable, and we really can't afford a fourth try anyways. I know it's not possible, but I'm feeling convinced I am only set up to have boys.

I'm not even pregnant yet and I'm terrified of the disappointment when I find out this next baby is a boy too, that I will never get my girl.

[Butterflies buttercups]

If it's any consolation I am pregnant and also feeling the same as u but cannot do anything now just hope I did enough !
All we can try is our best - only Ht is the only certainty by again like u day at a cost which isn't available to everyone .

Just do the best u can and I hope u can find peace on this journey x


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[atomic sagebrush]

It is to some extent the diet messing with your head. Many of us feel the exact same way (and it's very uncharacteristic) when we've been on the diet for a while. There's something just very defeating about it. This may be partially how it works.

The thing is, and I know you know this already - we don't really ever ~lose~. No matter the outcome of our sway, we WIN. We get a baby to love, and that is wonderful on its own merits. I think it's best to just try and focus on the positive and make our peace with it as much as it is possible. The more we dwell on how horrible it's going to be, I think it gets in the way of that.

[MiaMelb]

I know exactly how you feel. On one hand 'you got to be in to win' you're never going to get your DG if you dont try. 'Go hard or go home', 'you don't want to die wondering'. On the other hand why fight the inevitable? The pressure of another child financially, physical and emotionally to just end up where I started. Should I just get over it and move on with what's been dealt to me.

[laurelw]

I'm feeling the same!


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[atomic sagebrush]

I know exactly how you feel. On one hand 'you got to be in to win' you're never going to get your DG if you dont try. 'Go hard or go home', 'you don't want to die wondering'. On the other hand why fight the inevitable? The pressure of another child financially, physical and emotionally to just end up where I started. Should I just get over it and move on with what's been dealt to me.

Blue swayers you need to embrace that inner warrior!!! I find that some blue swayers tend to give up quite easily, tend to feel that it's all predestined and no point in even trying. But I PROMISE you that swaying WILL improve your chances. It isn't 100% but it does help!!