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December 14th, 2014, 10:32 AM #31
Hang in there amo....I feel your pain so acutely!
SIL#1 had BBGG, because that is what she ordered, of course!!! Then SIL#2 had GGBB, again, because that is what she ordered so naturally it happens.
DH has 6 siblings, we are the only ones who have yet to produce a boy and it is a HUGE deal in his family, sad to say but I am the shame of the family when it comes to producing grandchildren. (FYI, they can kiss my a$$ for all I care), but it still sucks to have that fact mentioned and pointed out. DH has told them to shut up about it, but I know how they feel, they told me for 10 years before DH told them to shove it!
I am so dreading finding out the gender and the backlash from them. If its a boy I will have FINALLY gotten with the program! If its a girl, we will be written off as useless....so much to look forward to.....
My Gender Dreaming
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December 14th, 2014, 05:27 PM #32Dream Vet
Thanks Adia. It sucks when we get pressure from family to produce a certain sex, like there's anything we can do about it and then seeing/hearing the disappointment.
I hope you get your boy. :-) xxDec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 15th, 2014, 11:44 AM #33Dream Vet
God this is hard! I've not told many people about my scan yet but of the few people I have told I've got some saying "it could still be a girl!" or "oh, if they couldn't give you a definite answer it's probably a girl". It's giving what I think is false hope before my private scan on Thursday and I'll crash straight back down after. I'm even desperately thinking back on my scan the other day when I spent the majority of the time staring at the crotch area every time she went in that vicinity and thinking I didn't see anything willy or ball like so it could still be....
Oh it's torture. It's bound to be a boy.Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 15th, 2014, 01:22 PM #34
Lots of distractions between now and then....hang in there.
My Gender Dreaming
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December 17th, 2014, 03:20 PM #35
3 years ago I posted my 12 week nub picture on a different site and got ALL girl guesses to then find out I was having a boy and I'm not gonna lie i was shocked and devastated! Fast forward 3 years and my little man is my angel who I wouldn't change for the world. Saying that tho when I do eventually go on to have baby no 3 and the 12 week scan comes around I will not be guessing the nub and I will not be posting the scan picture either! Incase anyone's curious I'll try and post the 12 week scan picture of my ds2!
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December 17th, 2014, 11:26 PM #36
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December 18th, 2014, 05:50 AM #37Dream Vet
No news yet. Scan is this afternoon, 5 hours and counting.
Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 18th, 2014, 05:53 AM #38Dream Vet
Thankyou Millie. That certainly was a girlie looking nub, I can imagine how you must have felt finding out it was a boy. Great to hear how happy little man has made you now though. I hope you get your girl one day. xxx
Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 18th, 2014, 02:06 PM #39Dream Vet
Well it's definitely 100% another boy. I was fully expecting it but it doesn't make it any easier. I think the hardest part is not being able to talk about it with anyone as every time I try I get the usual "be happy it's healthy" "you get what you get" and made to feel like my feelings are invalid or wrong. People just don't understand which makes this a very lonely and miserable experience. I'm dreading telling people.
Dec 2011
Miscarriage July 2014
April 2015 (failed albeit lame sway attempt)
Going to HRC to get my girl Dec 2016!
My HT girl due 31/08/2017
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December 18th, 2014, 03:06 PM #40
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