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Thread: So over it
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November 26th, 2015, 11:23 AM #11Dream Newbie
No my surrogate baby wasn't biologically mine. Traditional surrogacy is rare and generally not recommended by anyone but I wouldn't do that even if it was because then it would be hard for me. It wasn't even hard that she was a girl and people worried that would be affect me with how I feel but it's no different than anyone's daughter that's not mine.
I don't really express any of this to anyone but my husband and even then I try to keep it in when I can. I'm not able to act thrilled but I act like "goodness me another boy ahaha" basically but I wish I could pretend that well. With my mom (who lives with us fyi) I just don't talk about it at all and some days I just don't talk about much at all and others I'm able to just not talk about that. :P there are definitely worse days than others and occasionally I can see a good point or 2 but then there are days when I'm shaking my fist at the heavens for the unfairness of it all. I don't actually want to lose the pregnancy and I know that would put me in a worse spot than I'm in now but sometimes I just want it to go away like it never happened if that makes sense.2009 2011
Swayed for but is due 4/16
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November 27th, 2015, 06:48 PM #12
I'm glad you at least haven't struggled because your surrogate baby was a girl. Yes, traditional surrogacy is rare, but I saw a TV program about it, so I thought you never know! You are an angel for having been a surrogate! I wish I could be a surrogate but I just don't function during pregnancy, so it's out of the question.
I really hope you can manage to get through this. It's so difficult, I didn't think I could ever get over the heart ache and disappointment. It must be difficult trying to hide it from your mom who lives with you, you can never just get really upset in the privacy of your own home. Take care of yourself sweet heart! Big hugs to you!
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