swayers over 35 buddy group

[KraizyDaizy]

Temp is below cover-line and spotting so AF is here I think.

[mydream]

Ohhh kraizy I sorry .
I pray We are gonna get a BFP next month!!

[KraizyDaizy]

thanks so much mydream, I pray for BFPs in May as well. Wanted a Christmas baby, but a New Years baby will suffice.

[mydream]

thanks so much mydream, I pray for BFPs in May as well. Wanted a Christmas baby, but a New Years baby will suffice.

Meeee too! I was so praying for that as well, but I agree New Years is great too! (((HUGS)))

[KraizyDaizy]

s mydream!!!!

[Mum23boys]

Bumping for those who were asking about a group :-)

[Yuzu]

I'm always losing forums...sigh. I can't remember if I've ever posted here.

edited to add: I HAVE posted here. I'm a crazy lady. But next time I probably won't be swaying. I'll be going high tech (maybe. I told you I was crazy), so maybe this isn't the appropriate place for me.

[The Anchor]

Thanks for bumping...I didn't know this one existed. And showed up at the most opportune time cuz I just got back from my prenatal appt and I got the whole "over 35" lecture about downs syndrome and other chromosomal defects...and now I'm STRESSED. What was I thinking? I'll be 40 soon, and I'm still having kids? Doc says something like 1 in 85. My nuchal screen is in 3 weeks and of course I was offered the amnio but I have always turned it down because of the 1 in 200 chance of miscarriage. You know there's really nothing anyone can say to ease my fears either.

Just venting...if anyone has any similiar experiences would love to hear them!

[HopeandDreamG]

Anchor- your not going to like what I have to say. I conceived DD with downs. I was 35. I did the cvs which is supposed to be less risky then amnio.

My bloods came back like 1 in 20. I was the one it happened to. My heart is still broken. If u would have a baby regardless of chromosome issues then don't even bother testing.

[The Anchor]

Anchor- your not going to like what I have to say. I conceived DD with downs. I was 35. I did the cvs which is supposed to be less risky then amnio.

My bloods came back like 1 in 20. I was the one it happened to. My heart is still broken. If u would have a baby regardless of chromosome issues then don't even bother testing.

I'm sorry H&D,
But, thanks for your post, I do appreciate it. Apologies if I am prying and feel free to tell me to MMOB - but did you terminate? I have never tested in the past because I had no intention of doing so, but I do understand people who do, and might even be there myself because of my age.

Were you swaying? It probably doesn't make a difference one way or the other...just that I was swaying for egg health this time around, not boy or girl. So RJ/BP, folic acid, fish oil, all those.

Hugs to you...