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July 13th, 2014, 09:56 AM
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Femara sways and now I'm scared. What gender did YOU get?
Hello everybody,
I have one daughter whom I love beyond words. Now I am dreaming to have a baby boy to complete my family. Truth be told, I have always wanted a boy because my family is so girl heavy. I have 2 sisters, each with a girl of their own now....no boys....Nonetheless I was not disappointed when my beautiful daughter was born because she was my first baby.
Now I am about to start TTC via IUI+Femara. That is what my doctor suggested to help me conceive. I was OK with it as there was no evidence that Femara sways in any way, unlike Clomid. So i figured I still had my 50-50 chance.
Then just yesterday I came across a new study which showed that Femara sways PINK and it sways BIG. Among women with PCOS (who normally have more boys) those who took clomid and conceived had a boy to girl ratio of 36:41, while the ones who took Femara(letrozole) had a whooping 65 girls to 42 boys!
http://www.nejm.org/action/showImage...313517&iid=t02
Now I am really bummed...I was hoping for at least a fair chance, a 50-50 but it looks like I am destined to have another girl. This is going to be my last baby...I so badly wanted a son, I am no longer excited about getting pregnant again.
Has anyone heard about studies that contradict this? What did you get if you took Femara to conceive? Should I ask my doctor to give me clomid instead since it does not appear to affect the sex ratio so significantly?
Please HELP!
Last edited by wantblu2; July 13th, 2014 at 10:00 AM.
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July 14th, 2014, 12:12 AM
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I have a femara- IUI boy. (DS1) I would stick with femara. The clomid rates for girls here are pretty good (70ish%).
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(2011- IUI and femara)
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(8/2015) (sway opposite)
2019
HT 2018- Feb - 12 retrieved- 0 embies made it to PGS testing
April- 10 retrieved- 1 5AB embryo made it to testing- normal XX!!!! July FET- BFP!!! DD born 2019
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July 14th, 2014, 12:23 PM
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Dream Vet
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July 14th, 2014, 05:36 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
Interesting, thanks for sharing. I love a hot off the presses study!
I think IUI sways blue, and what you need to take into consideration is that that was NOT as controlled a study as it seems on first glance Those ladies were given femara for SOME reason, since Clomid is generally the first line of medication. Maybe they had already taken several rounds of Clomid. Maybe they didn't respond to Clomid because their bodies were just hormonally too far out of whack. Maybe they were taking other medications like Metformin or Spirolactone which are often given to PCOS patients and both sway pink. Or on a diet (also often done with PCOS gals) Who knows? None of them had IUI and so I wouldn't even put any stock into it at all. I would do what I could via diet, lifestyle changes, and so forth and I think you'll be in with a fine chance of blue.
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July 17th, 2014, 04:44 PM
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Big Dreamer
I was just prescribed Femara and I'm swaying girl. My doctor said there is less of a twin rate with Femara so he wants me on that. It makes me nervous that I see lots of boys in it. Eeekk!!!
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July 18th, 2014, 12:11 AM
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Big Dreamer
Good news-doc said I can take clomid instead!
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October 13th, 2017, 10:31 AM
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Dream Vet
Bumping. I am having the same concerns as OP and it's driving me crazy.
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October 13th, 2017, 06:43 PM
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Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Interesting, thanks for sharing. I love a hot off the presses study!
I think IUI sways blue, and what you need to take into consideration is that that was NOT as controlled a study as it seems on first glance Those ladies were given femara for SOME reason, since Clomid is generally the first line of medication. Maybe they had already taken several rounds of Clomid. Maybe they didn't respond to Clomid because their bodies were just hormonally too far out of whack. Maybe they were taking other medications like Metformin or Spirolactone which are often given to PCOS patients and both sway pink. Or on a diet (also often done with PCOS gals) Who knows? None of them had IUI and so I wouldn't even put any stock into it at all. I would do what I could via diet, lifestyle changes, and so forth and I think you'll be in with a fine chance of blue.
I think you guys should do what you can do to sway. I promise boys are born on Femara too all the time.
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