Trying to Sway .. for Boy

[Frozen_Elsa]

Hi Atomic,
1) Thank you so much for helping me in this process. We could not BD last night (night of peak OPK), but we did this morning and we plan to do it tonight. Should we do it tomorrow morning just in case? OR if I see a temp rise, I can skip it?

2)I checked my CM this morning and I saw EWCM (but I believe I had more yesterday). I did OPK test today, came out neg, which is normal right?

3) Also, DH is on antibiotic for his ear infection, do you think that will play neg role when I am trying to conceive?

Thank you

[atomic sagebrush]

I would try to sneak in another one. One day of temps can be a fluke and so I'd try to get in at least one more BD and then go to every other day till you're certain you Oed I do not ever want anyone to rely on one day's temps to decide what to do.

Yes, all kinds of patterns of CM and OPK are normal.

Some kinds of antibiotics may be a little bit hard on a person's system but lots of people have conceived while taking them.

[Frozen_Elsa]

Alright... I am totally lost. My Temperature did not went up, so I have not ovulated yet. So, how do I know exactly when I ovulate?

I have EWCM but not as much. When should I BD?

[Frozen_Elsa]

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[atomic sagebrush]

Did you not take your temps earlier, or???

This kind of chart is next to impossible for me because I don't have the pattern to go off of.

[atomic sagebrush]

BD every other day for now. That's what I would do. I do NOT want you to stop BD, because if you do O in a day or two there will still be sperm in your repro tract and since most of it will have died off, this may sway pink.

[Frozen_Elsa]

I was on travel and my sleep pattern was way off, and that is the reason I could not temp properly earlier this cycle. Please see previous two cycle to see if you can read any pattern.

Also, We BD'd AM and PM yesterday(CD 13) which was PEAK Day +1. So, I am thinking some Y sperm at still there in my system today (if any of them could made it) . So, should I BD tonight (CD 14)? or Tomorrow morning (CD15)? I would think tonight(CD14). then I can BD day after tomorrow(CD16).

Please suggest.

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't use other cycles' charts because I find them to be non-predictive of present cycles.

Yes yes please BD tonight and tomorrow night too since you've gotten that peak!! sorry did not realize that when I commented before.

[Frozen_Elsa]

Few update - I have been having mild cramping all this afternoon and evening. My CM changed, it is now mild creamy. I might be ovulating (I can probably confirm may be tomorrow after I get my BBT). In this mean time, we still plan to BD tonight....

If sperm does make to f. tube, and egg in unfertilized, I would think it would still have some opportunity to fertilize it.

question - Do sperm always make it to f.tube?
How long does a y sperm live vs. x sperm on an avg?

Thank you

[Frozen_Elsa]

Few update - I have been having mild cramping all this afternoon and evening. My CM changed, it is now mild creamy. I might be ovulating (I can probably confirm may be tomorrow after I get my BBT). In this mean time, we still plan to BD tonight....

If sperm does make to f. tube, and egg in unfertilized, I would think it would still have some opportunity to fertilize it.

question - Do sperm always make it to f.tube?
How long does a y sperm live vs. x sperm on an avg?

Thank you

Does creamy cm sways pink?