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November 29th, 2017, 09:27 PM
#21
Had my mock xfer today, and they found a uterine polyp. I have to have it removed next week, delaying our transfer to early January.
Boooooooooooo (but I'm glad they found it!)
Im back on bc.. supposed to start Lupron on Friday, but that's delayed until after surgery
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Luckiest mama to a
(2011) and my sweet
(2013 unmedicated VBAC).
Missing my Angel Babies (1/2015), lost due to twin partial molar pregnancy.
Another
, June 2015.. rainbow
2016.
Hoping for a rainbow girl in 2017; PGD/IVF.
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January 17th, 2018, 08:43 AM
#22
My first FET failed. I’m so sad. I don’t know what to do.
Luckiest mama to a
(2011) and my sweet
(2013 unmedicated VBAC).
Missing my Angel Babies (1/2015), lost due to twin partial molar pregnancy.
Another
, June 2015.. rainbow
2016.
Hoping for a rainbow girl in 2017; PGD/IVF.
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January 20th, 2018, 06:31 AM
#23
Dream Vet
I'm so sorry <3
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January 21st, 2018, 11:14 AM
#24
My doctor wants to hold off on everything and do AI testing. He is testing me for everything since I have really thinning hair, constant fatigue, eczema that won't be managed (facial and scalp dermatitis). I also had two miscarriages between #2 and #3, which he has no way of knowing were related to any AI issue, or genetics (I know the first was molar, so obviously genetic).
He said results take 3-4 weeks. I asked to go on BC during the wait so that he can pull me off to cycle again once the results are in.
Is it normal to feel absolutely awful and deflated after a BFN? I know I have a couple more shots (God willing, as long as they dethaw properly), but I feel crushed and hopeless right now.
Has anyone had to take a break for testing then resumed? What was your result/ eventual outcome?
Luckiest mama to a
(2011) and my sweet
(2013 unmedicated VBAC).
Missing my Angel Babies (1/2015), lost due to twin partial molar pregnancy.
Another
, June 2015.. rainbow
2016.
Hoping for a rainbow girl in 2017; PGD/IVF.
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January 21st, 2018, 01:04 PM
#25
Moderator
Most of us that have experienced an ivf miscarriage or bfn take several months off before transferring or cycling again. Between my first and second transfer I waited 3 months. I miscarried after my second transfer and waited for 9 months before transferring again. I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant following that transfer.
Hang in there. Unfortunately it is not a quick and easy process for a lot of us.
(2010)
(2013 LE sway opposite) HT
(HRC 2018)
Cycle 1 HRC Nov 2015: 9 retrieved, 6 mature, 5 fertilized, 4 biopsied, 2 normal XY = NT
Cycle 2 HRC Mar 2016: 13 retrieved, 12 mature, 11 fertilized, 9 biopsied, 6 normal = 5 XX, 1 XY!
FET #1 Aug 2016: Chemical
FET #2 Nov 2016 Immune protocol: BFP! HB at 7 and 10 weeks. No HB at 12 weeks
Miscarriage.
FET #3 Aug 2017 Immune protocol: BFP!
arrived May 2018
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January 21st, 2018, 01:10 PM
#26
Moderator
And it is completely normal to feel terrible after a bfn. You are hormonal and have a lot invested in this. I think most of us go into this process thinking that it is a lot easier to handle emotionally than it actually is. The highs are high and the lows are very low.
(2010)
(2013 LE sway opposite) HT
(HRC 2018)
Cycle 1 HRC Nov 2015: 9 retrieved, 6 mature, 5 fertilized, 4 biopsied, 2 normal XY = NT
Cycle 2 HRC Mar 2016: 13 retrieved, 12 mature, 11 fertilized, 9 biopsied, 6 normal = 5 XX, 1 XY!
FET #1 Aug 2016: Chemical
FET #2 Nov 2016 Immune protocol: BFP! HB at 7 and 10 weeks. No HB at 12 weeks
Miscarriage.
FET #3 Aug 2017 Immune protocol: BFP!
arrived May 2018
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January 21st, 2018, 03:55 PM
#27
Thank you for your replies, ladies. I appreciate the real insight and I am truly sorry to anyone who has had a BFN or failed IVF cycle. Much love!
Luckiest mama to a
(2011) and my sweet
(2013 unmedicated VBAC).
Missing my Angel Babies (1/2015), lost due to twin partial molar pregnancy.
Another
, June 2015.. rainbow
2016.
Hoping for a rainbow girl in 2017; PGD/IVF.
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January 22nd, 2018, 06:46 AM
#28
Originally Posted by
daydrmbelievr
My doctor wants to hold off on everything and do AI testing. He is testing me for everything since I have really thinning hair, constant fatigue, eczema that won't be managed (facial and scalp dermatitis). I also had two miscarriages between #2 and #3, which he has no way of knowing were related to any AI issue, or genetics (I know the first was molar, so obviously genetic).
He said results take 3-4 weeks. I asked to go on BC during the wait so that he can pull me off to cycle again once the results are in.
Is it normal to feel absolutely awful and deflated after a BFN? I know I have a couple more shots (God willing, as long as they dethaw properly), but I feel crushed and hopeless right now.
Has anyone had to take a break for testing then resumed? What was your result/ eventual outcome?
After my pgs miscarriage I had lots of tests done and I discovered I have a clotting disorder. So next time I’m going with clexane. Sometimes you need a break to know what’s going on. I had to cycle all over again...
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Hello, Atomic hopefully you will see this! It has definitely been a while. I am not TTC, my cycles have been MIA for over a year, I'm quite certain. I have not been charting but haven't had it....
Not sure where to ask not TTC