need advice on trying again after miscarriage

[bluebonnet22]

Eleena - I can relate to feeling depressed about how much better the loss pregnant was. My sway was much much stronger before my loss and I was due in April - I've always wanted a spring baby and was gutted to lose that. I never wanted a summer baby but here I am! Anyways, it will get better when you get pregnant again but I understand completely how hard it is to feel like everything was so perfect before and have it taken away!

[eleena2014]

wondered if atomic could give me some advice x

[maidentomother]

So sorry about your MMC & needing a scrape, too. I absolutely think you should TTC this cycle and the next since I believe miscarriage sways pink quite strongly. I would resume full on LE (and exercise if that's part of your sway), as I definitely think that it will improve your odds of pink. If you keep eating normally, I suspect it starts to sway blue and counteracts the pink effect of miscarriage. You want your body to keep thinking times are hard. I really hope you get lucky this cycle!

[eleena2014]

Doctor said it's Ok to try this cycle.I will have to see if I get a +opk and decide then

[eleena2014]

bump

[eleena2014]

I think I may have missed it I don't know. Did a opk yesterday which was a v slight faint line and today I'm pretty sure was even lighter. My period after miscarriage was due on a wed and I usually ovulate exactly 2 weeks After, but I didn't get af till Saturday.so I could get a positive this Thursday or Friday?

[eleena2014]

Should we try tonight anyway or wait till the weekend as I may get a +opk then?

[QueenB3blue]

I think I would keep testing for a +opk. I am really nerves to miss my o also. You could always bd every 4 days if that would be less stressful. Both are pink friendly.
Good Luck!

[maidentomother]

I really agree with Queen, especially bc post-MC cycles are often wacky and OPKs often don't work as usual. BD every 4 days is still very pink friendly and gives you the best chance of catching the egg this cycle. Good luck, hope it happens soon for you!

[eleena2014]

bd last night and got a darker opk today but still not completely positive,should the nxt bd be on monday now? would it matter if we did it sat/sun? or is it better every 4 days?