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    Thank you, I appreciate that. Of course I'm grateful that they are looking healthy and I will love them the same as I would a girl but my heart still hurts :-( x
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    Oh mandy I'm so sorry to hear this - huge congrats on twin boys, of course, which are awesome, but I know it hurts. Hugest hugs for you and your daughter.
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    I'm so sorry it didn't go your way. You have every right to feel upset, especially after putting so much into swaying. I hope in time, you'll adjust to the idea. I know how much GD sucks.

    I'm glad your twins are healthy though, congrats!
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    Congrats on your twin boys mama! I’m sorry to hear that you didn’t get the news you were hoping for and that your daughter won’t have a sister to grow up with and that it all feels so disappointing right now, but in time all the feelings will pass. The bonus is that you and your daughter will be the women of the house and will have a special bond together and she will have the men of the house to look out for her and protect her.
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    I am so thrilled for you! I know it's not the news you wanted but I think you are truly blessed
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    I’m sorry things didn’t go your way. I don’t think you’re ungrateful at all. I can understand why you were hoping for another girl especially since you’ve had three boys in a row and are now getting two more. What are the chances? I always think it’s so unfair when bigger families have none or only one of the same gender(unless they wanted it that way) If you have that many kids the genders should at least somewhat even out. Congrats on your twin boys though! My twin sister is my best friend, and it’s awesome having a twin! The one upside with them being the same gender is they’re probably be closer and have more in common than b/g twins would and g/g twins probably would have left your daughter feeling left out. Hopefully she will enjoy being the only girl in the house and have special relationships with all her brothers. Hang in there and feel free to vent here whenever you need to. Hopefully people keep their stupid comments to themselves


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    oh mandy, its ok to feel the way you do, I'm sorry it wasnt the dream you were hoping. I am glad they are healthy and like you said, take some comfort in the fact that you are still having twins which is a pretty special experience. I am in the same boat in wanting another baby girl so my daughter can have a sister... and I still dont know what I should do. You are brave and strong and now you have an amazing family of special people to love.

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    Mandy, I came on here to see if you found out the genders, I’m surprised their both boys, I feel your pain, I am sorry! But sometimes this is meant, no matter how much we try. I know u are sad but health is most important. I pray you have all granddaughters in the future. I also totally understand your want for another girl, a baby girl, I felt the same. And honestly my older daughter would of been happy with either gender deep down inside, it bothers us more. I hope the GD passes you and you find peace with it. Hugs
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    How are u doing Mandy x

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    Quote Originally Posted by Parying4agirl View Post
    How are u doing Mandy x
    I am doing much better now thank you. I still feel frustrated a little that I put so much into my sway and still got 2 boys, keep beating myself up that I could have done more and that my previous sway where I didn't fall pregnant was better and that I could have had more chance of a girl that time. But on the whole I think I have mostly accepted the fact that I will be a mostly boy mum and that I will never give my daughter the sister she wants. But I am just going to make the most of the relationship and bond I have with my DD. In my mind I will not rule out having more children but in reality I think its mostly likely not going to happen. I hope you are doing well? Xx
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