Sex question for girl moms...ignore if TMI bothers you!

[LilithWiser1979]

Okay, I'm going to preface this by apologizing in advance for this question. It's a lot to ask of you ladies to volunteer, but it's a burning question I just HAVE to ask.

So, how often do you go for a big O (with or without DH!) I'll admit that I'm a bit of an addict, and they come easily to me, and whether or not he's in the mood, I sleep better after one, so I often go for it most days of the week. Part of the mythology of TTC a girl is that a big O, or getting them often, sways blue. Every time I've gotten pg, I've had one before and after BD, and every time I've gotten a boy. Just curious to see if this is a common theme.

[carmella_marie]

I had always heard big O messes testosterone levels and not to do it when TTC pink so I did no big O for 2 months up to my attempt but got an opposite

[maria02]

I didn't and got a girl
Wasn't swaying though.

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[Mum to three girls]

I pretty much always do and have three girls.

[Rosie85]

So is this inquiring about frequent masturbation? I am curious too.

[Mum to three girls]

I was answering about the big O during sex! I have nothing against masturbation but we have a pretty active sex life so rarely bother.

[bunnywabbit]

In general is advised to avoid the big O whenever possible, as difficult as that is!

[LilithWiser1979]

LOL, yes, I was actually asking a sex/masturbation question without using the "M" word. People tend to shy away from it, and there are actually people who think that admitting to masturbation within marriage means your sex life is unsatisfying or that your marriage isn't good. CLEARLY I am not one of them

So I thought this might be the best way to ask and get as many responses as possible without asking anyone to admit to their relationship with their vibrator

[Rosie85]

oh! well I have zero censor. lol! Sorry!

[carmella_marie]

FWIW I don't think masturbation means you have a poor sex life in marriage! But, sorry TMI here, after about 6 weeks on the LE diet I was soooo dry down there had to have lots of lube and after about 8 weeks I had serious decrease in libido (lowering testosterone maybe?) and took that change as a good sign !