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    failed sways, 7boys,want to ttc girl again but where do i start?

    I thought I was fine with just having 7 boys but baby girl fever has hit once again. I've had plenty of failed sways. I did supplments, the "other site" supposedly girl diet which actually swayed boy, I took vitex,rephresh,diet coke&crystal light,things for ions,took metformin,etc. Did douching to the point of yeast infection Seriously where do I start! What kind of plan do I do to increase my chances of a girl finally? I did pay for the custom sway plan but Got pregnant with boy #7. I was actually doing some of the things Before I got pregnant. I loss weight the month before conceiving my 7th boy. I am getting to the point of being desperate for a girl. I know I'm pushing it because it will be 5th c section. My dh say no more which he said after all our other kids together kids 4-7. My baby is 6 months so I'm not ttc just yet but I can't help but to be researching ttc girl in the meantime. I am breastfeeding and decided to get on the mini pill for now. All this stuff is overwhelming because all I really know is this boy friendly lifestyle. I am sad and feel like this is a joke how can't I get a girl when it seems just about everyone else around me get to experience having a daughter with less boys than me. I'm sorry to be a downer but I truly need help I really want a daughter I so long for. I'm tried of dreaming
    Mommy to 7 finally had #1 in 2016! Had boy #8 after. Now returning to try to sway for final child praying for #2 🤞🙏

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    Just going to ask- is HT an option? If not, did you use the plan or you got pregnant before you could sway?
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    Quote Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink View Post
    Just going to ask- is HT an option? If not, did you use the plan or you got pregnant before you could sway?

    Somethings i was able to do but I must admit I gave the diet a break the month I conceived. I did stay away from some of the things I normally would eat. I wish HT was an option but I can't afford it
    Mommy to 7 finally had #1 in 2016! Had boy #8 after. Now returning to try to sway for final child praying for #2 🤞🙏

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    Can you still access your plan? Do you want me to send it to you?

    I can revise to include the breastfeeding and would be happy to do that, might take me a few days tho
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    Quote Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush View Post
    Can you still access your plan? Do you want me to send it to you?

    I can revise to include the breastfeeding and would be happy to do that, might take me a few days tho
    I appreciate that! Can I send you my email to send it to? I am wondering do breastfeeding actually sway girl because I conceived 3 boys while breastfeeding. Next sway I'm thinking about swaying well after breastfeeding.
    Mommy to 7 finally had #1 in 2016! Had boy #8 after. Now returning to try to sway for final child praying for #2 🤞🙏

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    Did you have just one attempt last sway? Did you exercise at all? Did you have a lot of EWCM?

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    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
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    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    I don't know much about HT but maybe you could do Microsort IUI along with your sway?? That might be a lower cost option?? Maybe NBP knows if this type of thing works or not? IDK, supposedly a sister of a friend of mine did this and got a girl??
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    Gonna try one more time too 6bluewant1pink!!!!
    Hope it works out for us this time!!!
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    I know how you feel about it not being fair! I love my six boys to bits but seriously can't believe I haven't had a daughter! And it does seem like everyone else can have a girl without even trying and without having 6+ kids! Why can't we??! 😞

    My DH said no more kids after our twins, but he came around like yours and hopefully you can convince yours to try again! 😉

    All we can do is try, follow Atomics advice and plans and have faith that surely it's our turn!! (Although I must admit your 7 boys scares me, as we are trying for number 7 &#128521
    Mum of 9 boys & my stillborn angel daughter, Shaylah Anne 20/02/2015

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    Quote Originally Posted by maidentomother View Post
    Did you have just one attempt last sway? Did you exercise at all? Did you have a lot of EWCM?
    Yes I did 1 attempt. I used rephresh night before BD and few minutes after BD. Not sure about ewcm I probably had some. I went on walks some days. I loss a great amount of weight the month before. People noticed my weight loss.
    Mommy to 7 finally had #1 in 2016! Had boy #8 after. Now returning to try to sway for final child praying for #2 🤞🙏

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