OPK positive, should I BD again?

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks ladies! DH will be working all night, but said he has time for a quicky fx I get a BFP this time! Hopefully the stress of him leaving doesn't destroy my sway!

Stress does not sway blue.

[seabeewife]

Only reason I was striving for the cut off is because both my boys were made by FR. I'm just trying to do everything opposite of my boys. If I don't get my BFP, we will just start the process all over again when he gets back. I'd rather up my odds of having a girl than just fall pregnant. This is my last baby, so I mine as well give it my all. Thanks for all the replies!

[atomic sagebrush]

Doing the opposite only works when what you were doing to start out with was the reason why you got boys. Which, in the case of timing, it's been so debunked that I can say with 100% confidence that it wasn't.

Just want you to be in with some chance of conception and 3 day cutoff is not going to give you real good chances.

[seabeewife]

What's your opinion on using spermicide? Can you BD all thru O if you're using it (only about 1/3 of the suppositories)? It's hard to find much information about it online.

[atomic sagebrush]

People weren't getting pregnant on it. Hardly anyone has tried it. It was an idea that I honestly can't even say if it panned out or not, it just hasn't worked out that I can even see the gender of anyone's kiddos on it.

I think it is a huge, major, gargantuan step in the wrong direction to use a bunch of sway tactics that cut odds of conception just so you can BD thru O. You aren't getting yourself anything whatsoever. YOu are reducing odds of conception no matter how you slice it, and so in that case I think it is a mistake to drop one attempt which has gotten great results (and you absolutely can get pg with one attempt as long as you aren't doing 700 other things to sway) in favor of something that is totally unproven.