Thread: Priorities for Swaying
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July 31st, 2014, 04:26 PM #11
Diet (I do a loose le diet anyway)
Stress relieving techniques (Alcohol and Lavender oil and painting my nails, all the ways I stop my Martha-ness from coming out hence the loose le diet, limiting my use of genderdreaming.com if I don't I become obsessive and want to add everything that I can)
Supplements- peppermint tea, folic acid and aspirin (when I remember), benadryl
Ph balancing - rephresh, 4oz of organic cranberry juice every other day
Timing we don't really have a timing schedule because a when you are secretly swaying its hard lol, and I realized after every 3 days dh gets irritated so I have been doing every three days instead of 4.
Exercising isn't going to happen for me and neither is timing it every 4 days. I go on walks when I can for about an hour but there is no set amount of days.
I will continue this way, if I don't get a bfp by the end of Sept I will start dropping stuff from my sway.
SN: Yes I know that this is by no means a typical genderdreaming sway but it's what I feel is best for me. Also yes, I am killing it with the ph, I'll drop rephresh (after this month if I don't get a bfp)Last edited by marriedmomof2; July 31st, 2014 at 04:43 PM.
Mom of 2 boys K-11 and K-7 with due 2/11/17
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August 1st, 2014, 07:48 AM #12
1. Diet (vegetarian, reduced cals, no snacking, low fat, low protein)
2. One attempt
I think these are 90% of swaying for most people.
3. Vitex & clomid
4. Daily cardio
Both can definitely help IMO but are not essential for most.
My Ovulation Chart currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP
TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!
Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic
Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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August 1st, 2014, 09:41 AM #13
Mine personally are in this order:
1: Clomid
2: Diet
3: One Attempt
4: Exercise
5: Most everything elseFour Amazing Boys!
One Sweet Girl - Thanks to Atomic and GD!
One angel watching over us
Praying and swaying for another so that , hopefully, our daughter can have a sister.
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August 1st, 2014, 11:37 AM #14Swaying Advice Coach
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please forgive me because I have not drunk my coffee yet but what is SN?
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No one knows, but studies have found a correlation there, esp. for DH (and of course it's a kajillion times safer because he will not be pg)
I can say based on the questionnaires I receive for my Custom Sway plans, there are disproportionately more blue sway plans with the husbands smoking. This past month I got 6 blue sway plans and 50% the husbands were smokers. I got 12 or 13 pink sway plans and none of them had husbands that smoked. This has been the trend since I started doing the plans. Between 30-50% of the blue custom plans I get have the husband smoking, whereas barely any pink sway plan people have.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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August 1st, 2014, 11:43 AM #16Swaying Advice Coach
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Claritin D can make for thicker semen, but it he needs it, he needs it.
Re peppermint tea, the effects should last a while after stopping it. I had the same thing happen to me with vitex, and it continued even the month after I stopped. I don't think drinking it at AF will help anything, the reason the period is lighter is because there's less of a lining built up due to lower estrogen and that has alreay happened by the time AF shows.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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August 3rd, 2014, 11:54 AM #18Big Dreamer
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#1- Diet
#2- exercise
#3- changing my hobbies to be less competitive.
I've had two "failed sways" and I really think the main reason they failed was because I was obsessive and competitive. So I plan on changing my hobbies to be more obsession and competition free.2009
2011
2011 Failed IG sway
2014 Failed GD sway
August 2015
2016
Whoops DUE February 28th 2017 with a BOY! Didn't get a chance to sway for another girl, but this little guy really wanted to be apart of our family. We love him already!
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August 3rd, 2014, 12:22 PM #19
Kitty - interesting take on it. What hobbies were you doing before and what hobbies do you plan to take up to help your sway? Were your sweet boys IG style sways or GD style sways?
DS1 (2012)
Due 7/13/2015 ! Swayed pink and I am blessed to be with and (TWINS!)!
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August 3rd, 2014, 08:37 PM #20Big Dreamer
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I guess they may not seem like hobbies, but I spent far too much time on Facebook. I also have a binder that includes every aspect of my life (budgets, meal plans, cleaning lists) and I would spend HOURS trying to come up with a new budget where I would save even a few cents (competition with myself). I also researched constantly, which had a huge effect on my constant obsessing.
Baby #2 was a failed IG sway. I had found this sight AFTER I was pregnant.
Baby #3 was a GD sway focusing primarily on diet and timing.
This time I'm going to replace my usual facebooking, researching, and budgeting with reading and tv shows. I also noticed the girl moms where I live tend to be clean freaks, so I'm going to try to use cleaning as a way to keep my mind busy. If I notice I'm getting too obsessed with it or making it into a competition with myself ("can I clean this area faster or better than I did yesterday) then I'll replace it with something else.2009
2011
2011 Failed IG sway
2014 Failed GD sway
August 2015
2016
Whoops DUE February 28th 2017 with a BOY! Didn't get a chance to sway for another girl, but this little guy really wanted to be apart of our family. We love him already!
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