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    Dtd advice needed asap please

    Hi all need some advice urgently we dtd after a 7 day abstaining and what i thought was a 2.5/3 day cut off. Its turned out to be a 4/4.5 day cut off, i think im ovulating now and pretty certain i will get my o dip in the morning as i got a pos opk 2 days ago. Its my first cycle of ttc so im no rush to get pregnant and my main focus is trying my hardest to concieve a baby girl. We dtd this afternoon (10 hours ago) but we used a comdom, my question is would the sperm count be low or high if we did a attempt now? or shall i just have a 4 day cut off and bring it forward next month.

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    Sperm count would be low, but I would definitely BD again ASAP if you wsnt a good shot this cycle.

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    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Thank you for replying, i didnt read it intime as when i wrote the post it was 11pm in uk time, we dtd with comdom and then was going to have a attempt this morning thinking my dip and ovulation would be today.... but i took my temp and i have the biggest rise and is well above cover line so i think i did ovulate yesterday but didnt get a dip which is unusal for me. It now works out 3.5 day cut off. Thanks again

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    You can definitely still conceive from 3.5 days before! Good luck.

    My Ovulation Chart
    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Thank you lets hope she catches the egg we dtd this morning at 5am just incase i was still ovulating....his released 3 times in 16 hours but last attempt was only attempt in me but not sure how it works after a rise and if it will catch the egg but hoping the 3.5 day cut off already caught it

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    Oh sorry I was late for this, no advice, just good luck!!

    When you're not in a hurry I'd always stick with one attempt. Adding attempts is for people who just can't bear to go on TTC any more or who have some other time pressure.
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