Better to DTD in am or pm when ttc pink?

[amelia10]

I'm going to stick to dtd in the morning, ive a long list of stuff I'm doing as it is so might aswell add this ... No harm in trying anyway!!! :-)

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[familymatters]

Just anecdotally, I DTD at lunchtime and got my DD, whereas both boys were at night, but I'm thinking that it's not so much the time of day that sways, but more that if you DTD during the day then you probably aren't going to lie around for hours - you are going to j&d because you gotta get on with your day. That's just my thinking.

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[amelia10]

Squigglepink sorry to answer your Qt I'm going to dtd the morning I get a positive ... I defi think there is something in it and loads of people have said on here do the opposite what you did to get your sons ... And I have 3 :-))) ... So who knows, it can't hurt that's for sure, not having my attempt until Aug!! Good point Familymatters!!!!!

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[atomic sagebrush]

RE doing the opposite -I really think you guys need to do what works for most of the people most of the time instead of this "do the opposite" mantra. I get that it seems logical at first but I really do think this approach undermines otherwise good sways. Let's say you were coming into TTC 80% likely to make boys, and then were doing things that either had nothing to do with why you got a boy, or were even swaying PINK for you. If you were doing stuff that took you from 80% likely to have a boy, to 60% likely to have a boy, it is STILL a pink sway, even though you ended up still more likely to have a boy. So to do the opposite of those things, not only would it not help, but it would make you MORE likely to have a boy yet again!!

I know it seems like things like the time of day you DTD can't hurt anything, but it is just another "control-freaky" detail to add to the mix and I'm telling ya, it's the people who do all these "can't hurt" things that end up getting sway opposites. The more you fight every minute of every day to control your universe and "sway pink" that is EXACTLY the type of stuff that messes with your head and inadvertently may sway blue. All the worrying over "time of day to DTD" and "how long to stay laying down to the precise minute" type of threads we have had this week - these things just CANNOT sway much if at all but the "making huge to do lists about swaying and TTC and then getting this big rush of succes/triumph emotions when you pull it off" is the kind of thing that DOES sway. I can all but pick out the people who will get opposites because of this one thing.

If you feel in your heart and soul that you HAVE to do this, ok, cool. But don't add a bunch of OTHER things like this trying to "do the opposite". if you're doing this, plus all this other control-freak stuff in some attempt to do the opposite of things that probably had nothing to do with why you got a boy in the first place (because most boys and girls were conceived in bed at night!!) you are only hurting your sway. Laid back sways where lifestyle changes just become second nature work. White-knuckled sways where you're juggling 1000 balls in the air all the time 990 of which don't even work anyway and it is taking this superhuman effort and constant concentration to pull it off make opposites. :/

[Pinkbutterfly16]

RE doing the opposite -I really think you guys need to do what works for most of the people most of the time instead of this "do the opposite" mantra. I get that it seems logical at first but I really do think this approach undermines otherwise good sways. Let's say you were coming into TTC 80% likely to make boys, and then were doing things that either had nothing to do with why you got a boy, or were even swaying PINK for you. If you were doing stuff that took you from 80% likely to have a boy, to 60% likely to have a boy, it is STILL a pink sway, even though you ended up still more likely to have a boy. So to do the opposite of those things, not only would it not help, but it would make you MORE likely to have a boy yet again!!

I know it seems like things like the time of day you DTD can't hurt anything, but it is just another "control-freaky" detail to add to the mix and I'm telling ya, it's the people who do all these "can't hurt" things that end up getting sway opposites. The more you fight every minute of every day to control your universe and "sway pink" that is EXACTLY the type of stuff that messes with your head and inadvertently may sway blue. All the worrying over "time of day to DTD" and "how long to stay laying down to the precise minute" type of threads we have had this week - these things just CANNOT sway much if at all but the "making huge to do lists about swaying and TTC and then getting this big rush of succes/triumph emotions when you pull it off" is the kind of thing that DOES sway. I can all but pick out the people who will get opposites because of this one thing.

If you feel in your heart and soul that you HAVE to do this, ok, cool. But don't add a bunch of OTHER things like this trying to "do the opposite". if you're doing this, plus all this other control-freak stuff in some attempt to do the opposite of things that probably had nothing to do with why you got a boy in the first place (because most boys and girls were conceived in bed at night!!) you are only hurting your sway. Laid back sways where lifestyle changes just become second nature work. White-knuckled sways where you're juggling 1000 balls in the air all the time 990 of which don't even work anyway and it is taking this superhuman effort and constant concentration to pull it off make opposites. :/

Thanks atomic, I needed that kick up the bum haha. I will relax


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