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January 30th, 2015, 02:15 AM
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Dream Vet
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January 30th, 2015, 02:49 AM
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I can understand junie, fb is a bad place for GD and for jealousy. Hoping your time will come very soon and it's your girl! Life can be difficult when we want something so badly. I have 3 fb friends who have announced in the last 3 weeks they are expecting girls. Another is going for an early gender scan on Sunday and I just know from her nub shot it will be another girl. Feel like I have no chance at getting what I want after everyone else is. I try to stay off fb when I'm feeling low. Sending hugs ((()))
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2011 DS2
2013. Successful sway
August 2015
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January 30th, 2015, 04:34 AM
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January 30th, 2015, 08:04 AM
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Dream Vet
Unfollow her. And anybody else who triggers these emotions. It helps sooo much.
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January 30th, 2015, 08:07 AM
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Dream Vet
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January 30th, 2015, 09:36 AM
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My sister did that to me.... It's hard to unfriend her:/. I haven't been able to talk to her since she had an ultrasound and her baby was measuring past where mine was when I lost it. I was fine until my mom full of excitement came over to me beaming that her baby is measuring 7wks4days with a hb of 132! Yipee fuckin' do!! I just broke down and my mom was really apologetic after that. Since then no one has even spoke to me about her baby & I'm just keeping my distance from everyone. Hopefully we get pregnant soon so the jealousy and rage feelings go away!
Sorry you are experiencing this.
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2015
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January 30th, 2015, 09:44 AM
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Dream Vet
Tarasue you can unfollow somebody and keep them as a friend. That way you don't see their updates in your newsfeed but you can still view their profile if you want and can follow them again at anytime without them ever knowing the difference
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2 baby boys blessed
Hoping for a little girl to complete our family
Angel baby Decemeber 23
confirmed
and pregnant again now
Please, please be my little girl!
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January 30th, 2015, 09:54 AM
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Dream Vet
Ohh I'm sorry hun. This is why I'm not on FB and won't be until I'm pregnant again. After my loss in 2012 I just can't bear to see babies or announcements. FB really is just AWFUL for those of us TTC, especially if we've had losses or are suffering from GD. Unfollow or take a break from FB completely, whatever you need to do to protect yourself emotionally.
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TTC #1
- swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!
Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after removìng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic
Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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January 30th, 2015, 09:59 AM
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Dream Vet
It's hard. I had a friend tell me how "you'll have to have another one soon" the month after my mc last year. She obviously didn't know. We were due about a week apart so every time I saw her growing bump I kept thinking, that's how I should be now. Also I was due Christmas day. No forgetting that date.
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January 30th, 2015, 10:06 AM
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Dream Vet
Venting
Originally Posted by
Babybeaublue
It's hard. I had a friend tell me how "you'll have to have another one soon" the month after my mc last year. She obviously didn't know. We were due about a week apart so every time I saw her growing bump I kept thinking, that's how I should be now. Also I was due Christmas day. No forgetting that date.
That is really tough. I had my miscarriage Dec 22- Merry Christmas! There will always be reminders and the less we have from social media the better.
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2 baby boys blessed
Hoping for a little girl to complete our family
Angel baby Decemeber 23
confirmed
and pregnant again now
Please, please be my little girl!
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