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    To have a D and C or wait it out.

    Thank you everyone for your kind words. This is day 11 since I started bleeding and I'm now just down to spotting. My HPTs are still very slightly positive. Does HCG need to go down to absolute zero before you can ovulate?


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    I am so sorry mm and everyone else who has went through miscarriage/s. I too and going through one and mm had the same exact question. I am two days ahead of you 13 days since it started. Mine was weird I got really bad cramps felt like I was going to go to the bathroom. Went to the bathroom and a big messy gush of blood dropped into the toilet. I passed out and got the diarrhea. (Sorry TMI) I bled heavy for about 3 days after that. Than it was light spotting for 2 days and went away. Than it came back this past Monday and been bleeding since, but its starting to turn into light spotting again. My hpt are still slightly positive also. It takes 3 mins for the positive to show up and its a squint positive than is darkens up the longer it sits there. Not as dark as it was in the beginning. I was told that your test needs to be negative before you ovulate again and some don't ovulate that first cycle, but of course I was googling and some people say that it is very rare but very few ppl can still ovulate with a positive hpt and get pregnant before they even get their first cycle afterwards. So I don't know what is true. I been having a hard time emotionally. We weren't even trying. We were using spermicide and avoiding my fertile times. I was planning on swaying or going HT in about a month or so after I came back from visiting family. So, now I am trying to keep my mind busy looking into swaying and HT. Trying to start the LE diet since it seems swaying is going to, most likely be the way we go this time. I feel like this lost baby had to be my girl since we weren't trying. Hope I can get another.

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    Yes unfortunately the tests do need to go negative before you ovulate. People say a lot of stuff on the Internet and you just don't know how much is real and how much is true (like people might see a ghost line false positive, or test days earlier than they really remember that they did) so please don't put stock into the people who say they ovulated with a positive test.
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    Do you know how long after you get the negative?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mommymachine View Post
    Thank you everyone for your kind words. This is day 11 since I started bleeding and I'm now just down to spotting. My HPTs are still very slightly positive. Does HCG need to go down to absolute zero before you can ovulate?


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    I tested with HPTs until they turned neg then with OPKs expecting them to go stark white before O. They got close but never went completely white, there was always a line. It took 29 days but the line got faint, then suddenly darker and then the OPK turned positive on cd 30 signalling O which ended up being on CD 33. HTH.

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    Here is the miscarriage chart I have where I actually tested the HCG out (including a "sign" marking when my OPK was nearly white/lightest it got before O)


    Don't know if it will help answer any questions, as everyone is different, but I figured it couldn't hurt.


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    HPT test out (didn't date last one because it was close enough to neg that I knew next one would be neg and I was gonna take a pic and toss them. It was taken on 5-26 on same EOD sequence):


    OPK test out(last one on bottom was CD 29):
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