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September 25th, 2017, 08:51 PM #11
Yes I have been disheartened by the process after looking into it a lot. It feels like it should be so much easier than it is- kids need happy homes, happy homes are waiting - how can it be SO hard?
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September 26th, 2017, 10:25 AM #12Dream Vet
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LP nailed it. Even in the U.S., the system does not favor the adoptive family nor the children. The process is highly discriminatory in many places, and the process has become MORE expensive than IVF in many places! International adoption has become a much bigger hurdle as well -- Russian adoption has been barred to Amrricans for the last few years, for example, when once they wrre a huge source of American international adoptions.
I think adoption is one of the most admirable things someone can do. It's just a shame that it has really become an avenue for the very wealthyLast edited by atomic sagebrush; September 26th, 2017 at 10:32 AM.
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September 26th, 2017, 02:21 PM #13Moderator
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Me (38) and DH (38)
SAHM military momma to DS1 (2004), DS2 (who's all boy but loves to dance, though not in a tutu!) (2006), DS3 (2009), and our rainbow baby girl DD1 (2017)
early m/c Jan 2013
Cycle #1 @ HRC (Oct 2014) - 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized and biopsied. 1XX and 1XY abnormal. 1XX no DNA found, rebiopsied and found normal, frozen.
FET attempt #1 (Nov 2014) - cancelled due to functional cyst. FET attempt #2 (Jan 30, 2015) - NT. Remaining embie failed to thaw.
May 2015 - started infertility treatments at OFC. Femara 2.5mg
July 2015 - BFP after second round of Femara. Aug 4 2015 - 6w4d
Dec 21 2015 - mmc 7w1d
Apr 2016 - IVF Cycle #2. Converted to IUI because of uneven response and leading follicles.
Apr 19, 2016 - IUI with 3 mature follicles (2 right, 1 left), post wash: 17mil, 94% motility and 89% rapid motility. BFN.
June 3, 2016 - 5mg Femara cycle. 5w.
Sep 1, 2016 - 5mg Femara cycle. 8w.
Our rainbow baby girl arrived on Mon Aug 28, 2017 - "After every storm comes a rainbow". We are so thankful and grateful for every moment.
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October 25th, 2017, 01:11 PM #14
I have a family member who recently did adopt a little toddler girl through US Foster Care although in her case she's had years of infertility. I don't know if her little girl has special needs or not but she was placed with them when she was under a year old earlier this year.
We would have considered adopting had fertility treatments failed.Me 36 DH 36 DS 7 3/10/10 Gender Dreaming success: DD 1 8/9/16
MC 8/25/15 at 9 w 5 d
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