Not pregnant -- ME?

[XXforhubby]

Hang in there! I know you can do this! I believe your desire for a son is much stronger. You just have to believe that and refocus the desire to control things to something outside of yourself. Maybe relocating the controlling urge will help. It works for me most of the time. I relocate mine when it happens to cleaning/organizing my house. My kids have learned to leave mommy alone or help out. At least it's productive instead of destructive. This is just a part of who we are. Give it a try.

(((Hugest Hugs)))


8/2010 6/2013 11/2015
Baby Girl EDD 9/30/2017

[Throwaway_panther]

Hang in there! I know you can do this! I believe your desire for a son is much stronger. You just have to believe that and refocus the desire to control things to something outside of yourself. Maybe relocating the controlling urge will help. It works for me most of the time. I relocate mine when it happens to cleaning/organizing my house. My kids have learned to leave mommy alone or help out. At least it's productive instead of destructive. This is just a part of who we are. Give it a try.

(((Hugest Hugs)))


8/2010 6/2013 11/2015
Baby Girl EDD 9/30/2017

Haha, I've already been simultaneously organizing our closet and creating a playroom for DD!

Definitely trying to keep the faith and combat the fears and failures here. I'm just so desperate for things to go my way finally!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes that's great news - there is something going on and there is something that can be fixed.

I think you should try. I think you need to try for your sanity and the fact is none of us know how anything sways at the end of it all.

[Throwaway_panther]

Thank you atomic, that really helps.

Procedure went well today so I'm all squeaky clean and ready to go once the bleeding stops. It's barely just spotting, so hopefully we'll be able to DTD soon

[4blue2pink]

so glad they found something they could act on and make right for you TP hang in there with the weight you have worked so hard on HE and remember its not forever its to get you to your baby boy

[Throwaway_panther]

Looks like I'm about to have another chemical

[MiaMelb]

Looks like I'm about to have another chemical

[Pinklaundryplease]

Just throwing this out there, I have not read all previous posts, and I don’t know you, so I apologize if this is old news... but I had three chemical pregnancies. Two of which I know had to be due to a weakened immune system. I had been fighting about a hundred flat warts on my face while trying to conceive, (about a year) after burning them four times, and trying homeopathic gels, and not getting pregnant my mother suggested I try to do a liver cleanse to see if it would help my immune system recognize the warts. I took liver cleanse herbs, and garlic, ( and more recently diatomatious earth) to try and clean my liver and kill any bacteria, viruses, or parasites. I got pregnant ( with a boy, but I was also eating high nutrient Whole Foods to go with the liver cleanse) the cycle after the cleanse.

I do know from your posts that you are a go getter, a lot like myself, bound and determined to accomplish goals. I am assuming you have probably studied about this or had much advice given to you from atomic. I just thought I would share my experience for whatever it is worth.

Oh, and the warts went away immediately after the cleanse too. Thank goodness!
And of course best wishes!!

[Throwaway_panther]

I don't seem to have any immunity issues based on testing and eat a lot of garlic and quality foods already, so not sure if that would make a difference, but thank you, I do appreciate the input.

My acupuncturist said I feel pregnant to her still, but tests are so faint. I wish my RE had returned my calls.

Not looking forward to Femara. I wish we could just do IVF with PGD but DH and I have gotten into fights every time I bring it up...

[Pinklaundryplease]

I have considered IVF PGD too, and I can’t get past the awful feeling I would get throwing away embryos, because I can only have one more baby. Otherwise, I think the idea sounds great... expensive... but it would be worth it.

I get the whole fighting with the husband issue. I mention six kids and he gets an upset stomach. even talking about swaying drives him nuts because he doesn’t want me to get my hopes up. Guess I can’t blame him, poor guy has to live with my emotions over the whole gender desire thing.

I hope you ARE Still pregnant. And things finally go your way. Good luck.