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    new here

    Found out number two is a boy. I cried for a week but I'm still obsessing weeks later. Just scheduled a 3d ultrasound hoping the tech was wrong. Maybe seeing his face will help me bond... We are two and done. So hard to say goodbye to the daughter I will never have.

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    Congrats on brothers. I think that is a wonderful gift for each of them. I know what you mean about the denial part. I scheduled a 3D for DD3 and told DH it was just for fun but secretly I hoped the tech had been wrong. It did help though, seeing her.

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    Those 3d scans are amazing, i bet u fall in love. Congrats on the new baby.

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    Welcome!
    Sorry to hear you are dealing with GD
    Fathers Day baby!


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    Thanks ladies. Seeing him on the anatomy scan was such a gut punch. I really hope this time is better.

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    Hugs, Lucysky. Currently battling some rotten GD myself so I get it ... ladies here are super kind and supportive so I think you'll feel welcome, and hopefully feel much better soon!

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    Welcome, I'm sorry you are feeling this way.
    Once he is born you will love him 100%
    Is there a reason you have to stop at 2 ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by love being a mummy View Post
    Welcome, I'm sorry you are feeling this way.
    Once he is born you will love him 100%
    Is there a reason you have to stop at 2 ?
    Partly because we agreed to two and also for financial reasons. I am terrified of having another boy too. Its weird because I've always wanted one of each. I want the mother daughter relationship when she is older.

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